Date Created: 12/13/2016
Last Updated: 12/15/2016

In loving memory of Ray Martin
1/20/1943 - 12/10/2016

Location: Omaha, Nebraska

Visits: 16,091

Ray Martin was born Beneath a Winter's Sky in 1943 to Wilbur and Elsie in Chaseley, North Dakota. Ray learned to care for his community working alongside his dad in the Martin Grocery Store. Ray fueled his faith next to his little brother, Warren, and other youth in the Bowdon Community Church of God. He planted a caring heart hosting church guests in their home with his baby sister, Betty Jo (Shrout).

Under another winter sky in '67 Ray entered into a life long partnership with the smartest, most beautiful, kindest, strongest, wisest, loving and lovable woman he could find, Nina Patrie. Freshly degreed from Warner Pacific College in Oregon, Pastor Ray extended his big heart to people in churches across North Dakota, Colorado and Nebraska before God expanded the call overseas. The Martins, now a team of 4, having added a son, Scott Ray, and a daughter Julie Joy (Stoll ) extended their love to the people of East Africa. It was under another winter sky in January of 1980 that the Martins boarded a plane bound for Mt. Kilimanjaro. It was in the Mara that Ray met his age-mate and brother Jackson Ole Teleo, and they joined Benson Shibangi. These two men, and others joined the Ray and Nina partnership to lead a dynamic varied ministry of health clinics, churches, a Bible College and even a cheese factory. This ministry today shines brightly under the African skies, in the form of schools and orphanages and vibrant, empowered Churches.

Under the gray skies In the blustery North Dakota winter of 1988 the Churches of the United Methodist and the communities of Mandan, Steele, and Arthur began to receive a blessing that lasting over 17 years. The team of Ray and Nina with the ever present collaboration of Scott and Julie came hone again. Pastor Ray brought his gentle touch to the pastoral care and community leadership of these towns.

How many babies were held in Ray's hands? How many hands did he bring together in marriages? How many hands did he hold and later lovingly mold as they took their last breaths.


Ray loved people well in each season of life, but it was the winter of people's life that Ray connected best. He studied and explored how we humans transitioned from this life to the next and then guided us through. Serving his final years of ministry as a Hospice Chaplain, Ray brought a calm to the wintery storms of people's lives, not only with the patients but the staff as well. He brought joy in the midst of sadness, he planted life in the midst of death. In the winter of 2016 he left this planet and our lives here better than he found them. Ray loved life, but he loved to love life with others especially those grandkids Dominic, Josiah, Nate, Dan and Anya!

Ray had an especial close relationship with his nieces and nephews who love him as much as he loved them.

Ray was always looking to include one more, to side with the underdog, to feed the hungry, care for the planet, to help us and feed us so we could grow. Ray's signature gesture was not a finger to hush nor a wag of disapproval, it was a thumbs up of affirmation, of encouragement, of HOPE. The family hopes to extend this legacy and invites all to join them to trust too much, care too much, live too much, because that is just the right amount.

Rather than sending flowers, plant some. If you want to express your appreciation through a gift, please do so through one of the following: Hospice House https://www.donationpay.org/hospicehouseomaha/ , Anderson University http://www.anderson.edu/support/gift or plant a tree with one of several wonderful organizations.

But most of all bring others in from the cold and hug them tight beneath the Winter's Sky.

 
 
 
 

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From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
From Farag Family: Nina, Scott, and Julie and families, Steve and I were so sad to hear of the passing of our dear brother, Ray. I guess that you heard that Nasser passed in 2013 after fighting with cancer for 12 years. We never forget the good memories of our ministry together in Kenya and our visit with you in N. Dakota sometime in the 80's. May the Lord's peace and comfort be yours. In Christ, Marilyn and Steve Farag



From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
From Leaderwell: I am sorry to know that Ray is no more. In spite of your loss, we know as believers that he has gone to a better place. Of course, knowing this does not lessen the pain. I pray for God’s grace and comfort upon you, children and grandchildren. My wife Sita joins me in sending this condolences. With prayer, Leaderwell



From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
From Sue Steier: Dear Nina, I was sorry to read of the passing of your beloved Ray. I have many memories of calling for Chaplain Ray when admitting a hospice patient. He always arrived with a smile and great compassion and kindness to all. I will never forget him coming to my parents home to make a hand casting for their 65th wedding anniversary. It remains on top of their TV in year 73 now. My first cousin is Patty Graham who volunteers with you. My 10 years in hospice were very special during my 40 years in nursing. And working with you and Ray was wonderful. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sue Steier



From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
from Thomas A. Stelter: Ray was an inspiration to me, having counseled me on all things related to surviving cancer, etc. Love him! I know he is getting answers to all his questions... :) Hugs to all. Wish I could have joined you tomorrow.. :( Here are some pics I had on my phone... What a guy!... Glad to have shared life's journey with him. Thomas A. Stelter



From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
From Jane Wiebe Kennard Nina: How well I remember both you and Ray at North Dakota/Manitoba youth camps near the Peace Gardens. I was from the Morden church. You were the "elders" in our midst...steady, strong, spiritual guides. I remember the Patrie brothers too. Good times! Blessings of comfort and peace to all of you during this time of loss. Jane Wiebe Kennard



From: Scott Martin Monday, January 9, 2017
From Larry Ortman Dear Nina, Just a couple of days ago, I received an email about Ray's passing. It seems to me that I had heard Ray had some significant health issues awhile ago, but the news of Ray leaving you and the rest of us was not expected. I am so sorry to know Ray is gone and that you and your family will go on without him. I really did not know you and Ray as well as I would have liked. Some years separated us but from my vantage point of observing you both, I found great delight and encouragement in knowing you and observing you both live your lives for each other and most significantly for Christ. Ray modeled for me a love for life and people...he was genuine and interested in others. He had a wonderful smile and laugh. I will never forget playing "Fox and Goose" out a Herb and Marie's one could winter night. Ray played it as if his life depended on it...it was so much fun to watch him as the "Fox." You both were so nice to be around. The last time I saw Ray was a few years ago at Mt Scott Ch of God here in Portland. I had retired from pastoring the church due to my health and for some reason, Joyce and I visited the Sunday morning Ray was there with (I believe) Betty Jo and Terry and their daughters. Ray was his wonderful warm self and so interested in me and my life. I really will treasure that last brief conversation. Now, I know you are a wonderful woman of faith but I do pray for the Lord's comfort and grace to fill and guide you as you walk a new path without Ray. Joyce and I send our love and blessings to you. An old ND friend, Larry



From: Rev. Darwin Kopfmann Friday, January 6, 2017
Just read about Ray's passing moments ago on a Conference e-mail. What an up-beat, positive and dynamic man Ray was. I, and wife Donna, so enjoyed working with Ray and Nina through the UM Board of Global Ministries, and, in having them and their family members as guest speakers/musicians at one of the churches I/we served in ND. It was if we'd been life-long friends after that. Now retired, and remarried following Donna's death, I too continue (as did Ray) to minister in various ways. Ray was positive proof that love, hope and service is a lifetime commitment. I'm blessed to have made his acquaintance.



From: Denise LeBaugh Friday, December 16, 2016
I first met Ray when he was an an on-call Chaplin for the Children's Hospital. I was the staff development person responsible for the annual mandatory education. Most on-call/supplemental staff, would complain, resist or be really nasty to me when their manager said to call me to get access and login information. I did not create the requirements - but many thought I did and if they argued enough with me, I would somehow excuse them from completing the coursework. I had my pager on nearly 24 hours through the annual training weeks, answering anytime someone had a mandatory training question. Between harried managers, human resources regulations, and staff who did not see a reason for the mandatory training, the last weeks of the year were always a bit trying to say the least. On the evening that Ray called me for access to the training website and his employee ID log in, I experienced first hand his humor and kindness. He did not argue with me, he heard me when I said it wasn't me but OSHA/HIPAA/JCAHO and others who required it be done. He listened and seemed to instinctively understand what I had been dealing with during the last 4 weeks of the year. He could have reacted as the previous employee did and yell at me that this was stupid. But he didn't - I think he said something along the lines of "I just did this education for my other employer, maybe it will be easy" Anyway, I doubt that Pastor Ray knew how much that kindness meant to me on that day at that time. I hope my story shows Nina and family how it was always the little things that Ray did that had the most impact. I will miss Ray's humor, Ray's insight, Ray's support at every BUMC staff meeting.

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